March 5 WE MAKE LOVING PEOPLE A LOT MORE COMPLICATED THAN JESUS DID.

Affirmation: I am not less for making mistakes; I am more, because I am learning.

This is so true…Doulgas and I are learning French and it is when we make a mistake and learn why it was wrong and how to say it, or write it correctly that we are really learning.
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Wholehearted Guidepost from Brené Brown
Live Wholeheartedly.

What are your norms for your life? Think about it and give yourself some options.

For today you may use the ones I adopted from Brene’ Brown.
Be Courageous. 
Be Compassionate.
Be Connected.

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Mastering the 7 Decisions from Andy Andrews
The Persistent Decision 
7. I WILL PERSIST WITHOUT EXCEPTION.
I possess the greatest power ever bestowed upon mankind. I hold fast to my dreams. I stay the course. I do not quit.
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Reading for Today
Walk in Grace. Live in Love. by Bob Goff

March 5

WE MAKE LOVING PEOPLE A LOT MORE 
COMPLICATED THAN JESUS DID. 

Dear children, let us not love with words or speech but with actions and in truth. 
1 JOHN 3:18 

Have you ever had a friend or relative who "loves you so much" they can't have a single conversation without rehashing all the ways they think you're wrong? Or have you been told you're "loved so much" that you can't come around anymore? Or have you been denied something you really wanted arid needed because you're "loved so much"? So often someone tells us they're doing it for our good when it feels like it's for their good. 


For a lot of people, love looks a lot like telling us we're cut off until we fall in line. Some people call it "tough love," but I don't think Jesus had this phrase in His vocabulary. 


We make loving people a lot more complicated than Jesus did. Jesus thought love meant a lot of things. It meant eating meals in people's homes, even when they were the kind of people who had been cut off by religious communities. It was touching the untouchable. It looked like making time for the people others passed by. Jesus wasn't scared away by those who had a reputation for being scandalous or unclean, because He saw through the labels that had been slapped on them and He believed in who they might become. 


We'll miss the opportunity to see people grow if we won't meet them with love where they are. Sometimes it appears it's more important for us to be "right" than to be Jesus. No one has ever been argued into a change of heart. No one's ever been coerced into becoming more like Jesus. If you're hoping to spread the love ofJesus to those you think are wrong, try loving people like Jesus. 
Next time you feel like you "love someone so much" that you want to give them a piece of your mind, try giving them a glass of strawberry juice instead. Love isn't as complicated as we make it. Just love people. Don't add any qualifiers. 


What can you do this week to love someone with actions rather than words? 

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